

Erika here, filling in while Pawlene recovers from her latest catnip binge. It's partially my fault - I left a few tea bags of catnip on the dining room table, right on top of my to-do list so that I would not forget to pack them for California. When I returned from a brief errand, I discovered the carnage depicted in the photo (catnip EVERYWHERE) and Pawlene, remorseful, staring out of the bedroom window.
In other news, Martin had dinner in Santa Fe, New Mexico last night with Renee Zellweger. Hmmmm. Last I heard he and Neil were headed for VEGAS, BABY!
I've been trying to amuse myself over the last few days with food, naturally, and one Broadway Show (Spring Awakening) that I just couldn't miss after cousin Andrew's
enthusiastic review. It captures teenage angst and sexuality like no other movie or play I have seen. In the food department, I've been alternating between our local favorites (Lassi and Cafe Asean, whose roast Long Island duckling with coconut creamed corn I just polished off) and heavy hitters such as Gramercy Tavern (a perennial favorite) and, finally, Babbo. It is every bit as good as everyone says it is. Aside from dinners I have been subsisting on the Rogue River blue cheese that Neil brought, lovely end-of-summer cherry tomatoes, radishes, and young coconut. Clearly the plan to cook a grand meal or two using everything left in the fridge and cupboards has been trashed. Movers come tomorrow and take away the plates and silverware, so I'll be forced to eat the rest of my meals out. I've got the breakfasts lined up. Tomorrow I'm enjoying cafe con leche and the best Puerto Rican oatmeal (introduced to me by a friendly tow truck driver years ago when Charlie and I had a blow-out on the George Washington bridge). On Saturday, a leisurely good-bye brunch at Prune with Andrew, and finally, on Sunday, my last trip to Jack's (our beloved local cafe) for a bagel and some of that patented Stir-Brew Coffee before I get on the plane. Luckily, I'm not moving to a culinary wasteland, although apparently Portland is
where it is all happening these days.
You can get great food anywhere - even Texas - so that is not what I will miss the most about New York City. This place inspires me like no other. All it takes is a walk down the sidewalk side by side with every size, shape, and color of person you can imagine. Yesterday I saw a man who was *completely* covered in tattoos, even the insides of his ears were illustrated. But I digress. All of these people, moving with such PURPOSE. I get sucked into the powerful current that runs this city and it just CHARGES me with my own creative energy and purpose. I can't wait to connect and contribute and collaborate with these passionate and driven souls.
Living in New York City is hard. You have to really want to be here. The weather is relentlessly hot or freezing cold. The streets and subways are crowded with masses of people who push and move fast - you have to go fast too, or you get run over. It's expensive - everyone is out to make a buck and if you don't stand up for yourself, you get run over there too. But living here feels like being part of something important. People take their civic duties seriously - we help tourists find their way, we say a friendly hello to the flower guy, coffee guy, and baker whose shops we walk by every single day, we support the arts in myriad ways, and generally we take great pride in our identities as New Yorkers.
Don't get me wrong - I'm looking forward to putting down roots in California - literally and figuratively. I might eventually get tired of the hustle, the concrete, the noise, and the hard work of living in New York City, but I haven't yet. To me, it will always be the greatest city on earth. But for now, it's time to turn to the other side of my personality - the side that wears overalls instead of stiletto boots. The side that loves growing things, and listening to crickets at night, and being able to see the stars. Maybe, once we get really settled and I have long forgiven Pawlene for the mess on the dining room table, I'll even grow a little patch of catnip for her to roll in, tear up, and destroy.